Friday, 15 March 2013

menjerit atau rileks~

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on
a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken
face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands
desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got
panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed
on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the
drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of
the cockroach on his shirt.
When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and
threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind
picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach
responsible for their histrionic behavior?
If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?
He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.
well. im one of them :P

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle
the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or
my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the
disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my
inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that
disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates
chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well
thought of, just and right to save a situation from going out of
hands, to avoid cracks in relationship, to avoid taking decisions in
anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.
Have a nice day.

source:fb ^^~

nota kaki: aku pun mula tersedar saat aku mula membaca cerita ini. ya mungkin kamu juga pernah melihat artikel ini. tapi ya. ilmu patut disebarkan. ye dop? haha. kadang-kadang benda kecil semacam seseorang batuk di sebelah kamu boleh menjadi sesuatu yang sangat irritating tatkala kita tengah sakit hati kan. ataupun tengah stress sebab sesuatu. so it depends on ourselves back on how actually WE control the situation. right? :')

pagi-pagi makan apam, kalau xpaham marilah kita mengepam. #eh?
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4 comments:

Dang Kahla said...

wa pon jenis yang selalu react tapi serius,tak tahan tengok lipas ohhh.lagi2 yg terbang..perghh mmg lintang pukang wa lari

konklusinya,wa takut semua jenis serangga =='

Limin Eddie said...

aku teringat aku pernah bagi "kejutan" kat kawan aku yg tgah syok2 mandi kat tandas asrama.. aku masuk2 je trus aku tegor aku cakap "lewatnye mandi" je.. tapi dye menjerit punye la kuat.. dye jerit.. "AHHHHH".... (terkeluar suara betina nye)... lucu2..

Cikgu Jaja™ said...

lain org lain caranya

sukehati dia la oi nak react apebenda pong.

hahaha

ganas x ganas x

but however, dlm kes kt ats kalau org tu jenis bijak i mean sentiasa menggunakan akal dlm apa keadaan pon, takkan berlaku kacau bilau malau semua..kikikiki :p

Alif Haris said...

sama macam masalah hidup yg datang. nak salahkan 100% masalah tu?
mana boleh.
tinggal bijak ke tak bijak diri kita handle msaalah tu.
uhuhu

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